The Fine Line Between Self-Love and Self-Obsession
Explores how genuine self-love fosters peace and growth, while self-obsession, fueled by social media, breeds insecurity.
Lately, everyone seems to be talking about “quiet luxury.” You know — simple, well-cut clothes in soft tones, no logos, just understated elegance. At first, I loved the idea. After years of loud trends and over-the-top designer names, it felt refreshing to see something calm and effortless. But the more I thought about it, the more I realized — it’s not really effortless for everyone.
Quiet luxury looks simple, but it’s expensive to pull off. The perfect beige blazer or minimalist bag usually comes with a price tag that screams the opposite of “quiet.” And let’s be honest — most of us aren’t buying $800 shirts to look “low-key.” Still, I understand why people are drawn to it. There’s something peaceful about dressing in a way that doesn’t chase attention. It feels mature — like you’re confident enough to not prove anything. For me, the idea works when it’s personal, not performative. Quiet luxury shouldn’t mean copying what rich people wear — it should mean choosing pieces that feel right, last long, and make you comfortable. It’s not about showing less; it’s about caring less about what others think.
So yes, I like the message behind quiet luxury — simplicity, confidence, calm — but I also think fashion should stay fun, not filtered through what’s “in” or “elevated.” Sometimes a bright color or bold print says just as much about who you are as a muted trench coat ever could.